HONORING OUR PARENTS

            “Honor your father and mother, as the Lord your God has commanded you, that your days may be long.” – Deuteronomy 5:16

            The year was 1727. The place was a small bookshop in Lichfield, England. A man who kept bursting into violent fits of coughing was packing books to sell in his market stall in Uttoxeter. Between coughs he asked his 18-year-old son to take the books that day. But the young man, deeply engrossed in the Latin classic he was reading, heard him but ignored the request. The stagecoach arrived, and the father stepped out into the pouring rain with his load of books to take the 20-mile ride to the market.

            Fifty years later, an elderly man stood for hours in the pouring rain at a market stall in Uttoxeter. When the storm finally subsided, he walked back to a waiting carriage and returned home. There he bowed his head and sobbed. That man was the famous literary genius Samuel Johnson. He was still haunted by the memory of what he did so long.

            Honoring our parents is more than an obligation. It’s also a privilege. As children, we honor them by obedience; as adults, by frequent calls or visits and self-sacrificing care. Missed opportunities to show love and honor may bring deep regret years later.

            The command is simple: “Honor your father and your mother”. And God always rewards obedience. Don’t miss the opportunity to honor and obey the parents God has given you – for they’ll be gone someday.